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    Should I Divorce?<\/strong><\/p>\n

    What sentence is sadder than, \u201cI want a divorce!?\u201d Should a couple divorce when they face problems? God doesn\u2019t intend for homes to be broken. When Jesus discussed adultery and divorce, he emphasized thereby how holy and important the marriage covenant is; hence people should not divorce on a whim. What should you do when you face huge marriage problems (other than adultery)? When ill-treated, how should you react? Probe your own heart, actions and attitudes. Your spouse\u2019s actions were wrong, but what about your attitudes? Forgive your spouse. Someone said, \u201cForgiveness doesn\u2019t make the other person right, it sets you free.\u201d Yes, you hope your spouse will repent, but don\u2019t wait on that.\u00a0 God forgave you; you forgive your spouse. Forgive, and then try to rebuild your home.<\/p>\n

    Read with spouse: Matthew 5:31-32; 19:1-12; 1 Corinthians 7:8-40; Matthew 18:15-35.<\/p>\n

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    1. Why should you forgive your spouse when he\/she offends or sins against you?<\/li>\n
    2. In private, each spouse list ten specific things you can do to make your spouse know that you love, appreciate and are thankful for him\/her. Do each of these things during the next two months.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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      \nShould I Divorce?
      \n\u4f5c\u8005\uff1a\u8c22\u5fb7\u534e \u00a9By Edward Short<\/h6>\n

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